On the machine with mailman run
newlist <listname>
You will be asked for an email and password (don't use a secure password as it will be emailed to you in plain text).
Now you can manage the list at lists.example.com
rmlist -a <listname>
try running
sudo exim -d+route -bt list@lists.example.com
also check '/var/lib/mailman/data/virtual-mailman
' contains 'list@lists.example.com
'.